Ceremonies

The Institution of Marriage

On why the institution of marriage refuses to fade and die and what humanists should do about it

 

Dear fellow humanists:

Ceremony can be an important part of our human experience. My mandate on the Humanist Canada board is to investigate and share information about how humanists address this need and to make recommendations on how Humanist Canada may support local groups. My focus is on weddings because they are regulated by governments, but ceremonies can also include funerals, naming ceremonies, de-conversion ceremonies, coming-of-age rites, and any other event that marks a transition in a person's life.

  1. The regulations governing weddings vary by jurisdiction and humanists differ in their priorities with resulting regional and local differences. Gaining a global view is a challenge. You can assist by responding to some or all of the following questions, and by e-mailing your responses to: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. or take our on-line survey.
  2. The discussion paper makes a case that the marriage ceremony can be a transitional event, and that humanist officiants should construct individualized ceremonies from the values and worldviews of the participants. Do you agree with this general thrust and, if so, what limitations would you put on this thrust (i.e., are there some values or worldviews that we should refuse to reflect in ceremony)? If you disagree with the suggestion that officiants should construct individualized ceremonies, why do you disagree with this thrust?
  3. There will be couples who state that ceremony is not important to them and they want the minimum required to obtain a legal marriage in their jurisdiction. In one such case I had a couple state that they wanted to sign the required documents and that they would have a "real" marriage later. How should humanist officiants approach such couples?
  4. Given current legislation and resources in your area, what should be the next steps for the development of humanist officiating in your area? In what ways are you willing to contribute to this process?
  5. The focus of this discussion has been on weddings. What other significant life events are there that humanists require and how are these needs being met now?
  6. Are there any other questions you would like to address as part of this discussion?

Sincerely,

Lloyd Robertson, Board Member
Humanist Canada

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Humanist Ceremonies

The impulse to mark significant events in our lives is as old as humanity itself. It is a hallmark of a cooperative community to share our joys and sorrows, to recognize new beginnings, stages of life, and endings.

ceremoniesHumanist Officiants are trained to serve the growing community of people who are not affiliated with any particular religion, who wish to celebrate the important moments of their lives in their own way with an appropriate ceremony.

Our officiants will provide you with sample ceremonies suitable for the occasion and they will work with you to create a meaningful ritual tailored to your needs.

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Ceremonies for all Occasions

ceremonies tnThe role of ceremonies is to ‘make special’, to recognize the importance of an event to individual people and their communities. There are many ceremonies in many cultures that seek to recognize life transitions beyond birth, marriage, and death.

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Humanist Weddings

WeddingsAs with any wedding ceremony a Humanist wedding symbolizes the commitment of two people to share their lives together. The only difference is the couple do not seek the blessing of a supernatural power.

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Humanist Namings

Naming CeremoniesWelcoming a new life into the world, a new member to your family, or a new addition to a community is an occasion for a naming ceremony. Since ancient times, the conferring of a name has been recognized as a symbol of acceptance and of welcome.

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Becoming an Officiant

Becoming an OfficiantIn their role as leaders of ritual and keepers and creators of tradition, Humanist Officiants are also ambassadors of Humanism. For this reason, only those with a strong commitment to the Humanist philosophy are considered for training and licensing as Officiants.

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